No matter how hard you try to block the fact out, all relationships are not meant to last. The ‘happily ever after’ is only limited to fairy tales, and not real life at least not always at the first go. Thousands of minute factors all work against and break it up, despite our best efforts to make it work.
The only way one can accept this truth is if thy com out of their fairytale worlds and believe in Conscious Mating. And this is the best way to avoid a major pain in the end. While some problems can be tackled trough discussions and sittings, some others cannot. This is natural and not exclusive to your relationship. So it is in this pre commitment phase that one must analyze the level of problems and try either to solve them or decide to part.
So, it is this time, when you are not yet in wed lock and free to easily go your own way, to make a non-judgmental and practical choice. It sounds difficult, and it probably is, but it will reduce a lot of unnecessary hassle later on. So identify what you and your partner want from this relationship and how much you have in common, now that the ideal romantic phase is long past.
Accordingly make the choice and keep to it, to prevent all the good memories acquired, being lost amongst all the bitter fights later on. So be practical and sort out matters now and be happy later knowing if this did not work out there will be someone else who will be right for you.
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