Welcome To My Blog

I am going to wager that by you having come here that there is something that is troubling you or you feel that there is someone or a life that is better... waiting for you.

Now, I'm going to make it absolutely clear that this is not a professional counseling site, nor does it have expert opinions that many sites and forums contain.

This is just plain old me - having been through dozens of relationships and finally finding the right one, giving you my 2 cents worth.

I think you will find in my various 'ramblings' that there will be nuggets of truth in the sea of info. I do this because I feel that if I can make someone else's life see a turn around for the better - I would have washed away another stain from my tenure here on earth.

I wish you love and peace....

Monday, June 28, 2010

How to Enhance Your Love Life

Enhancing your love life is something that every long term relationship eventually requires. Sooner or later your love life will be affected by the regular stresses of everyday life and many other factors that may make your love life seem lacking. Often we hear that our partners are too tired to make love or perhaps there is a problem in the relationship that make love making just a bit more difficult than it used to be. So many aspects of our daily lives are affected and reflected in our personal relationships. This is when learning how to enhance your love life becomes very important.

For starters it helps for you to be able to incorporate playfulness in the bedroom. Being playful in the bedroom is a key factor to you having fun during lovemaking. It also helps you to get closer to your mate.

Learning how to become more spontaneous when it comes to love making can also help you to improve your love life. The reason for this is because it lets your mate know that you still find them attractive, which is the key to a great love life. Here are some more tips to making your love life better:

1.    Try to add some spice into your relationship by bringing toys to the bedroom with you. It can really make a huge difference. 


2.    Role playing is a great way for you to be able to make your love life a great deal better. It is also a good way to explore fantasies.


3.    Explore your fantasies with your mate and be very specific in your requests. Just be sure that both you and your mate are comfortable with your ideas.


4.    Be willing to talk openly with your mate about what you want in the bedroom.


5.    Having an open mind toward making love is a key component in keeping your love life secure.

There are just so many things that you can do to make your love life better that it can be difficult to settle on any one in particular. Most of what is needed is an open mind because that is when the inhibitions are lower. This is very important to any relationship and a willingness to do whatever you can to spice things up helps as well. 

Thursday, June 17, 2010

How to Find and Attract Your One True Love?



You may look around and think that finding and attracting the right man is close to impossible. 

Everybody seems to be very happy in a relationship apart from you. It seems that you cannot manage. You may be successful in everything you do but when it comes to true love you fail to get one. You are left questioning whether at all as anything as one true love. Think what makes him or her great. He or she may be the one who love you unconditionally.  

There may be flaws and imperfection included. There may be things in the relationship that you won’t agree but in-spite of all this, he or she will love you. This guy will reciprocate your love for him and even more. The question is whether you will be able to find him. 

Even if you find him then next question is how would you attract him and make him stay. It is simple to attract him and make him fall for u and commit for a long term relationship. For this you need to close your eyes and think about that one true love. Imagine him standing in front of you.  Think how would he be. Think of a possible weekend get away to romantic destination. Think about a conversation that you may have. Think about how it feels when you are touched by him.  

The way you feel and hear him in your mind is the way he would be in your true life. It is quite possible to meet someone like him. You may have had a bad experience with your past. But while visualizing your one true love you are actually manifesting him already. The concept of love at first sight is the manifestation before the first sight. 

Manifesting is a virtual existence of this true man. Believe in your heart that you can really make this virtual man come to life. The next step for you would be is to change for the better. If you think that it has always been the man’s fault then it is the best time for you to look into your self. 

Nagging him is definitely not going to help. You should remember that a relationship is a two way street that requires both of u to work on it. 
Stop your unwillingness and try something new because you still await the best.